You do not have to have a degree in psychology to use it to get your ex back into your life. The straightforward approach rarely works to win an ex back. It is time to work smarter but not harder in obtaining your goals. With a smart strategy and a cool head your ex will take notice that something is different, and will want to pursue a reconciliation.
Although this tactic is powerful and very effective it will only work if there are still feelings between you two, so paying attention to the signs that your ex gives to you is a must throughout this process. The first thing is that if you and your ex shared a strong enough bond. That is to say, you will still want to communicate after the break up. They will expect a little bit of a chase by you trying to communicate by any means or by sending small gifts. This is where most individuals go wrong. Your ex will become restless and start wondering what you are doing.